Monday, March 31, 2025

What I've learned since moving to D.C. (some of which should be obvious): 0239

11901.  You are the buyer not the seller.  You’re not here to sell yourself for approval.  You’re here to choose who you want in your life.  Be willing to be disliked.  Because being liked by everyone means you’re being real with no one;

11902.  And rejection?  It doesn’t mean you’re broken.  It doesn’t mean you’re unworthy.  It doesn’t mean anything about you at all.  It’s just proof that you finally stopped auditioning for people who were never meant for you in the first place.  And that?  That’s freedom;

11903.  Medium Rare (MediumRareRestaurant.com) has a prix fixe steak dinner for $31.95.  It includes (artisan rustic) bread, a mixed green salad( with Dijon dressing), their (award-winning) culotte steak( with their secret sauce) and hand-cut French fries (i.e., pain de campagne, la salade verte, steak culotte, frites et sauce secréte);

11904.  3 questions to ask about money before moving forward in a commitment to dating: 1.  What was the conversation you had about money growing up?  What did your parents teach you about money? 2.  What’s your thoughts around ownership?  What’s your thoughts around debt? 3.  You have a $1,000,000.00 right now.  What are you doing with it?  Bonus question: What do you value most?

11905.  Love is: 1.  Liking someone’s personality; 2.  Respecting his/her values; and 3.  Commitment towards helping him/her get to his/her goals;

11906.  The (jumbo lump) crab cakes at Faidley’s Seafood (FaidleysCrabCakes.com) (in Lexington Market) in Baltimore, Maryland, are (really) tasty;

11907.  The cream of crab soup at Faidley’s Seafood (in Lexington Market) in Baltimore, Maryland, is tasty;

11908.  Cream of crab soup tastes like clam chowder, but with crab;

11909.  If you’re looking for (raw) raccoon, muskrat, alligator and/or frog legs, they sell it/them at Faidley’s Seafood (in Lexington Market) in Baltimore, Maryland);

11910.  Sweet potato cookies (specifically from the Trevon Clark Experience) have a (soft,) cake-like texture;

11911.  Walking around Lexington Market in downtown Baltimore(, Maryland,) feels/seem like an episode of “The Wire;”

11912.  The fried chicken at Super Fried Chicken (LexingtonMarket.com/Merchants/Super-Fried-Chicken) (in Lexington Market) in Baltimore, Maryland, is (really) crispy and pretty tasty;

11913.  Every time you tell yourself, “I should have handled that differently,” you’re projecting today’s awareness onto a version of you that didn’t have it.  It’s not fair.  And more importantly?  It’s keeping you stuck.  Because here’s the truth, regret is just self-attack in disguise.  And no amount of self-punishment will change the past.  You think that if you had just made one different choice, everything would be better.  But how do you know that?  What if things were unfolding exactly as they should?  Think about it.  That struggle, maybe it was shaping you into who you needed to be.  That failure, maybe it was saving you from something worse.  That pain, maybe it was life feeding you broccoli.  Something that didn’t taste good at the time, but was exactly what you needed.  How many times have you looked back at something that once devastated you and later realized that was actually the best thing that could have happened?

11914.  Life isn’t working against you.  It’s working for you.  So stop punishing yourself.  Let go of the guilt.  Decide, right now, that you don’t have to carry this anymore.  You are free to move forward.  You are free to forgive yourself.  You are free;

11915.  If you’re waiting for fear to disappear before you act, you’ll be waiting forever.  Fear doesn’t leave before you act, it leaves because you act.  But not just by forcing yourself through it; by leaning in and then letting go.  By experiencing the discomfort without trying to fight it.  By realizing that the thing you were so afraid of; it was never actually holding you back.  It was your resistance to it that was keeping you stuck.  So stop waiting.  Stop trying to be “ready.”  Start stepping in and letting go.  Because the moment you do, you’re free;

11916.  Apparently, you can make pate with wildebeest and zebra;

11917.  I can say I’ve had wildebeest pate. . . . It’s okay;

11918.  I can say I’ve had zebra pate. . . . It tastes pretty similar to wildebeest pate;

11919.  Brisket burgers are pretty tasty( specifically the Big Bites Grind burger (with ground sirloin, brisket & chuck) at District E (DistrictEDC.com) in Washington, D.C.);

11920.  The 3 most powerful questions you should ask when someone is overreactive, stressed out or overwhelmed in an argument or conversation: 1.  Sounds like you have a reason for saying that? 2.  Tell me more(.  What else is going on?  Is there anything else you want to say?  Are you sure?); and 3.  Are you okay?

11921.  You want to avoid eating sugar on an empty stomach;

11922.  Avoid eating sugar in the morning.  Breakfast should be savory;

11923.  If you really need the sugary snack, put clothing (i.e., proteins, fats or fiber) on your carbs (i.e., bread, pasta, rice, potatoes, oats or sugars);

11924.  Never eat your carbs naked so that they don’t cause as big of a glucose spike.  Because when you put clothing on those carbs, digestion happens more slowly;

11925.  You don’t need to fast in order to be healthy.  It’s much more important to eat well in a way that keeps your glucose levels steady than to restrict your eating window;

11926.  4 top blood sugar balancing hacks: 1.  Eat a savory breakfast – Eating a traditional sweet-and-starchy breakfast on an empty stomach triggers blood-sugar spikes and cravings.  Instead, start each morning with a meal built around protein and fat, like eggs, Greek yogurt or leftover chicken from last night’s dinner – something that will keep you satisfied for 4 hours.  Avoid carbs or anything sweet, other than fruit, if desired; 2.  Knock back an apple cider vinegar shot – Consuming 1 tablespoon of vinegar daily is shown to curb cravings and improve satiety by 144%.  Plus, the liquid’s acetic acid slows the rate that digestive enzymes in the gut can break down starches into glucose, flattening a blood-sugar spike by up to 30% and a fat-storing insulin spike by up to 20%.  One study found that people consuming vinegar lost 3,539% more subcutaneous body fat than those who skipped the sip.  To get the benefits, simply choose “a vinegar and a vehicle” to get it into your body 10 minutes before a meal.  1 tablespoon of apple cider vinegar mixed with 8 oz. of water, tea or seltzer.  Or you can mix vinegar into foods like pickles or kimchi.  One caveat: Since the goal is balancing blood sugar, avoid mixing your vinegar with a sugary drink like apple juice, which could create an unintended spike.  Tip: Sip vinegar with a straw to protect your tooth enamel; 3.  Enjoy a fiber appetizer – Before eating your most carb-heavy meal each day, first consume a veggie “starter.”  Research finds that lining the gut with plant-based food lowers blood sugar, inflammation and helps curb weight gain.  And soluble fiber helps balance blood sugar.  Eating veggies before a high-carb meal is also proven to slow sugar absorption and reduce the magnitude of a blood-sugar spike.  It’s fine to keep your pre-meal snack simple: Eating 10 olives, some cut-up carrots or steamed green beans will do.  One favorite: “backward broccoli.”  Just pour boiling water over fresh broccoli in a heat-safe bowl, let sit for 2 minutes, drain and enjoy; and 4.  Move after one meal – “Exercise makes your muscles more sensitive to insulin so they ‘soak’ up the glucose and help maintain stable glucose levels,” explains Dr. Gottfried.  A Cleveland Clinic study shows that exercising after a meal slashes blood-sugar bumps by 45%.  Strive for movement within 90 minutes of eating.  And since we lose muscle as we grow older – a change that slows our ability to burn fat – older women should opt for weight-bearing exercise.  Try seated calf raises with a heavy book on your knees, dancing while holding a grandbaby or walking with a weighted bag or hand weights.  Or consider wearing Agogie pants, with strength-training resistance bands woven into the fabric;

11927.  The chicken tenders at “Uncle C’s Chicken & Waffles” (UncleCCW.com) in Alexandria, Virginia, are very good . . . and the fried chicken is pretty good, but the waffles were disappointing;

11928.  The espresso martini at Casa Luna (TheCasaLuna.com) in (Old Town) Alexandria is dangerous.  It’s well-balanced, has a lot of coffee/espresso flavor and you can barely taste the alcohol;

11929.  Don’t be ashamed to need help.  Like a soldier storming a wall, you have a mission to accomplish.  And if you’ve been wounded and you need a comrade to pull you up?  So what?

11930.  Spam musubi has a slightly sweet taste;

11931.  If you’re fishing on a boat, bring a jacket no matter what the (weather forecast says the) temperature is supposed to be.  It can be cold and windy on the water especially before the sun comes up;

11932.  To reduce the mess, place/put fish under water when you scale them;

11933.  Fileting fish is a lot harder than it looks;

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