Monday, January 28, 2019

What I've learned since moving to D.C. (some of which should be obvious): 0146

7251.  You don’t have to suffer like everyone else.  You can live differently, but it all starts with a choice that you won’t be a victim to your circumstances;
7252.  You are not responsible for what’s happened to you, but you are responsible for what you’re going to do;
7253.  You can’t control the outcome of your actions, but you do get to control your actions;
7254.  Every failure contains a treasure trove of valuable lessons if you just take the time to look for them;
7255.  Failed to achieve your previous year’s goals: 1.  Forgive yourself for not achieving the goals you didn’t accomplish; 2.  “Should” goals v. “Must” goals; 3.  Make a 100% commitment to the goal; 4.  Implement a daily, weekly and monthly planning system; 5.  Implement a better time management system; 6.  Practice “The Success Principles;” and 7.  Remove all unconscious limiting beliefs;
7256.  Compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world.  S/he who understands it, earns it.  S/he who doesn’t, pays it;
7257.  Dividend payments received from participating life insurance policies aren’t subject to taxes by the Internal Revenue Service because the insurance companies generated the gains off of their policyholders.  In essence, the dividend payments are treated as refunds for overpayment of the premium;
7258.  Leaving what we know and facing the unknown can be a scary move.  That’s why most people rather stay in their misery for the rest of their lives and keep complaining instead of stepping up and attacking their fears head-on;
7259.  Winning means being unafraid to lose;
7260.  Winning usually follows losing;
7261.  For most people, the reason they don’t win financially is because the pain of losing money is far greater than the joy of being rich;
7262.  Brian Mitchell (formerly of the Washington Redskins, Philadelphia Eagles and New York Giants) eats at (Joe) Theismann’s (Restaurant);
7263.  I can say I’ve been drunk with Brian Mitchell;
7264.  Brian Mitchell has a degree in chemical engineering;
7265.  Life is a unique combination of “want to” and “how to.”  We need to give equal attention to both;
7266.  If you want to write covered calls in the safest way possible, always make sure you’re selling a contract with a strike price higher than the price you paid for the shares.  And also remember to factor in all commission costs related to both the underlying investment as well as those paid to open and close the options trade;
7267.  You are not your past.  What’s happened to you has happened to you.  You can’t change it.  You can only change your perception of it;
7268.  (Fried) kale on pizza works;
7269.  How to get out of your comfort zone: 1.  Nobody incentivizes you to step out of your comfort zone, incentivize yourself; 2.  You can get ahead and rise above mediocrity quite easily.  The competition is sleeping; 3.  Take responsibility and ownership of your life; and 4.  Exercise: 10 negative/potentially positive results of stepping out of your comfort zone;
7270.  Apparently, the biggest difference between pastrami and corned beef is that pastrami is smoked after it is cured while corned beef is not. . . . Pastrami is typically cured with a dry rub and corned beef with a brine. . . . Brisket seems to be the most common cut for both;
7271.  You are your greatest asset.  Put your time, effort and money into training, grooming and encouraging your greatest asset;
7272.  Show me somebody who has never failed and I’ll show you a failure;
7273.  The way you can expand your world is by taking small risks and learning from them;
7274.  Our choices are one of the few things in life we can totally control;
7275.  Potbelly (Sandwich Shop) (Potbelly.com) has an “underground” menu. . . . The Wrecking Ball (i.e., a Wreck toasted with meatballs, marinara sauce & topped with lettuce & tomato) is pretty tasty;
7276.  If you look for what’s wrong about the person you’re in a relationship with and store that negative image in your mind then that’s where your relationship exists.  If you change your thoughts to what you love rather than to what you label as wrong, you’ve just changed your entire relationship.  It went from lousy to great by changing your mind;
7277.  You carry every relationship around with you in your head;
7278.  We love the things we love for what they are.  When you forget this and process other people on the basis of what you think they should be, what they used to be or how they compare to what you are then you’ve sent love away and, in your mind, the relationship has soured;
7279.  You experience everything and everyone in your thoughts.  Change your thoughts and you change what you carry around in your head as problems;
7280.  Apparently, there are opioids in milk. . . . It’s to encourage the baby/offspring to eat more. . . . This could explain the addicting nature of dairy products such as cheese and ice cream;
7281.  A dream written down with a date becomes a goal.  A goal broken down into steps becomes a plan.  A plan backed by action becomes reality;
7282.  The difference between profiteroles, éclairs and cream puffs is that profiteroles are frozen and the others are not.  They may all be filled and topped the same way;
7283.  WIN = What’s Important Now?
7284.  The formula for failure is a few errors in judgment repeated every day;
7285.  The formula for success is a few acts of discipline repeated every day;
7286.  Success is the one thing you can’t pay for.  You buy it on an installment plan and make payments every day;
7287.  (Quick, one-minute) oatmeal made with chocolate, almond milk isn’t bad;
7288.  You can feel whatever you feel, but you can’t always do whatever you want to do;
7289.  Most people are afraid to try something new because they are afraid of disappointment.  They are afraid they might make a mistake or be rejected;
7290.  If you want to be successful in life and not just get by, you need to be able to try new things.  And if you do that, be prepared to be disappointed;
7291.  Just like inside every problem lies an opportunity, inside every disappointment lies a (priceless) gem of wisdom.  The key is knowing how to deal with and learn from disappointment;
7292.  The reason there are few, self-made, successful people is because few people can tolerate disappointment.  Instead of learning to face it, they spend their lives avoiding it;
7293.  Just as we learn from our mistakes, we gain character from our disappointments;
7294.  Expect disappointment.  Only fools expect everything to go their way.  Expecting to be disappointed does not mean being passive or a defeated loser.  It is a way of mentally and emotionally preparing yourself to be ready for surprises that you may not want.  This allows you to be calm and dignified when things don’t go your way, which in turn allows you to think better;
7295.  Success takes time and along the way there is much disappointment.  You have to be ready and willing to keep pushing and learning;
7296.  One of the most painful aspects about making mistakes or failing at something is not what other people say about us, but how hard we are on ourselves.  Most people make a mistake and beat themselves up more than anyone else would;
7297.  It’s hard to learn anything new if you punish yourself all the time.  So be kind to yourself;
7298.  We all make mistakes and face disappointments.  The difference lies in how we process them.  This starts with facing the consequences of our actions and telling the truth about why we failed;
7299.  People, who take risks, make mistakes and recover, often do better than people who learned not to make mistakes and are afraid to take a risk;
7300.  Being independent, in the financial aspect of your life, comes when you finally feel free to make mistakes and manage risk;

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