Monday, December 16, 2019

What I've learned since moving to D.C. (some of which should be obvious): 0168

8351.  The (official) age a child can open a social media account is 13.  This probably has less to do with safety and more to do with companies being able to use the data of a minor;
8352.  Tacos al pastor is derived from (Middle Eastern) shawarma;
8353.  The Portuguese ambassador lives at 2125 Kalorama Road, NW (in D.C.);
8354.  (I can say) I’ve had Portuguese wine at the Portuguese ambassador’s house/residence;
8355.  (I can say) I’ve shaken hands and spoken with the Portuguese ambassador (i.e., Domingos Teixeira de Abreu Fezas Vital);
8356.  (I can say) I’ve been to Portugal (technically);
8357.  (I can say) I gave (up) my seat to the Portuguese ambassador;
8358.  I’ve been to a concert (specifically cellist, Mafalda Santos, accompanied by a pianist) at the Portuguese ambassador’s house/residence;
8359.  I’ve had dinner at the Portuguese ambassador’s house/residence;
8360.  Dessert at the Portuguese ambassador’s house/residence (i.e., fruit) is a bit disappointing;
8361.  Rainbows can appear in the daytime or nighttime sky;
8362.  A rainbow that appears in the night sky is called a moonbow;
8363.  Optimum conditions for viewing a moonbow arise during a full moon because the moon acts as a mirror casting the most light from the sun towards the Earth.  Mix a full moon with a misty night and you have the greatest chance of seeing a moonbow;
8364.  Boba/bubble (milk) tea has more caffeine than (a cup of) coffee. . . . Who knew?
8365.  Trader Joe’s “chicken Balti pies” (i.e., tender chicken chunks & vegetable in a traditional Balti curry) are (pretty) tasty;
8366.  Just before you go to bed try to practice visualization.  When we sleep our conscious mind is at rest, but our subconscious mind is super active.  By practicing visualization just before we go to bed, we train our subconscious to be occupied by events as we want them to be.  The subconscious mind does not distinguish between imagined reality and reality;
8367.  When the subconscious mind believes something to be real, it drives our actions in sync with these thoughts and leads to the manifestation of our imagined thoughts;
8368.  Don’t think of disappointment as a catastrophe after which your world comes crashing down.  There is life beyond disappointment so think of it as a normal occurrence;
8369.  Learn to segregate situations that are within and beyond your control;
8370.  One way to get along with people for rapport building is focusing on the other person’s breathing;
8371.  Another great way to establish rapport on a subconscious level is to mirror the person’s body language including gestures, posture, expressions and words;
8372.  When you mirror someone’s actions, at a subconscious level you are revealing to them that you are similar;
8373.  To alter a limiting belief, gather all positive evidence in support of the situation or circumstances;
8374.  No one who achieves success does so without the help of others.  The wise and confident acknowledge this help with gratitude;
8375.  The southwestern, grilled, chicken (breast) sandwich at Laporta’s Restaurant in (Old Town) Alexandria is (pretty) tasty;
8376.  Thanksgiving (Day) . . . check;
8377.  Things pretty much are what they are dealing with the world on that level is enlightenment;
8378.  Apparently, Shelli’s cousin (i.e., Robert Newton) was (an infielder) on the University of Virginia baseball team (in 2001 and 2002);
8379.  It sounds like my (late) uncle might have been schizophrenic;
8380.  Everything just is.  It’s our interpretation of it that creates pain or joy . . . fear or passion;
8381.  We label things as good or bad and then we create feelings based on those labels;
8382.  For the most part, we live with expectations and preferences.  When those expectations aren’t met, we’re angry.  When life around us unfolds in a way that doesn’t match our preferences, we create the darker emotions;
8383.  We hope that the external world will conveniently align and unfold in the way we desire.  Yet that’s rarely the case.  The world is a chaotic place.  You can’t control it;
8384.  Any control you think you do have over the world is generally an illusion.  It’s a construct.  It’s something you use in order to feel safe;
8385.  So many people are unhappy because they try to control everything around them . . . people . . . businesses . . . political beliefs . . . weather, etc.  Then when things don’t unfold in a way that matches their preferences, they’re angry.  The response is to try even harder to control things.  It’s to hold on tighter.  Develop a stronger grip.  Yet that’ll never work;
8386.  Good luck and bad luck are in the eye of the beholder.  It’s a subjective opinion;
8387.  Things are going to happen.  It’s up to you to decide whether or not they happened for a reason;
8388.  Surrender and trust.  Those words are the keys to actual happiness and not just the type of happiness you experience when things are “going well.”  So let go;
8389.  Apparently, Panama Geisha coffee is (currently) the most expensive coffee in the world;
8390.  Grits are made from ground corn;
8391.  Chicken tastes better when you cook/reheat it with the skin on;
8392.  If you like gingerbread, (you might want to) try Trader Joe’s “mini gingerbread men” (i.e., gingerbread cookies with white fudge icing). . . . They have a very sharp ginger flavor;
8393.  (According to Martine Rothblatt,) 10% of the (250,000) lung cancer cases a year are from radon (exposure);
8394.  Reality is nothing but attention or interpretation of an act.  The way you interpret a certain act becomes your reality;
8395.  Perception is more often than not derived through internal dialogues;
8396.  The internal dialogue is actually our ego conversing with itself.  It is the voice that combines reasons and feelings with people, situations and life events.  Internal dialogue is often the filter through which we extract meaning from our everyday life;
8397.  When your internal dialogue is full of negativity, frustration and gloominess, your reality or perception becomes equally gloomy.  Similarly, when your internal filter is filled with positivity, optimism and uplifting internal dialogue that becomes the frame of your life and, consequently, your reality;
8398.  Think of your internal dialogue as a blank canvas that can be painted with just about anything that you want to;
8399.  Gratitude is a potent mental state that leads to a complete transformation of our internal framework.  It shifts that focus for what we need or don’t have in our lives to our blessings, which places us in a more positive frame of mind.  All you need to do is affirm all the things you are grateful for by saying something like, “I am truly grateful for . . . .”  Recount all the things you are thankful for including things you take for granted such as your eyesight, the limbs you walk on, the clothes you wear and the roof above your head;
8400.  By counting your blessings, you are creating a positive momentum for a powerful internal dialogue;

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